I personally think there is one bigger commitment (or at least should be for each man) than relationship. It is to have a mission, huge goal in life that is your main goal. A great vision that can change the world for the better. Also, you should have values that are impeccable (if it's the right term) and which you wouldn't change or betray for anything! Not to demean spouse or kids though.. I just think man should be committed to something bigger than himself or his relationships.